Our non toxic laundry guide

You pull a warm t-shirt from the dryer and breathe in that scent we’ve been taught to love.

“Fresh.” Comforting. And, quietly, chemical. Laundry detergent has become one of the most intimate chemical exposures in modern life. It’s worn for hours, warmed by body heat, absorbed through skin, inhaled through airways, day after day. And it’s increasingly being linked to hormonal disruption, chronic skin issues like eczema, and respiratory problems, including asthma in children. 

Unlike occasional contact with cleaning sprays or perfumes, laundry detergent exposure is constant. Pyjamas, bedding, gym clothes, children’s uniforms, all acting as delivery systems for fragrance, preservatives, and surfactants. Over time, the body compensates. Hormonal signalling becomes noisier. Skin becomes reactive. Airways become sensitised. Symptoms are often treated in isolation, without tracing them back to one of the most persistent exposures in daily life.

The good news is this: it’s one of the easiest things to change. And one of the cheapest…

The first step is the most important

(and it took me a long time to get over this one)

Realising that cleanliness doesn’t need to have a smell. Scent is the great illusion of cleanliness. It bypasses logic and speaks straight to the brain, where smell is tightly linked to memory, emotion, and safety. If something smells “fresh,” we assume it’s clean, even when nothing about the cleaning process has actually improved. Detergent companies know this well. Fragrance is cheap to produce, easy to intensify, and far more convincing than real cleaning performance.

Synthetic fragrances are engineered to cling to fabric and release slowly over time, which is why clothes can still smell weeks later. That lingering quality isn’t proof of hygiene, it’s proof of chemical persistence.

Historically, clean clothes smelled like air, sunlight, or nothing at all. The idea that cleanliness should have a strong, recognisable scent is entirely modern, and entirely manufactured.

What this does to hormones

Once you remove the idea that scent equals clean, the next question becomes harder to ignore: what is that scent actually doing in the body?

“Fragrance” is not a single ingredient. It’s a legally protected term that can hide dozens, sometimes hundred,  of synthetic chemicals under one word. Many of these compounds are known endocrine disruptors, meaning they can interfere with hormonal signalling by mimicking, blocking, or confusing natural hormones like estrogen, progesterone, and thyroid hormones.

Hormones work through tiny signals and when synthetic compounds that resemble hormones are introduced repeatedly, the system becomes noisier. The body struggles to interpret what’s real and what isn’t. 

For children, whose hormonal and detox systems are still developing, this exposure matters even more. Small bodies processing the same chemical load are far more vulnerable to disruption. What’s framed as a harmless household product becomes, over time, a quiet endocrine stressor the body is constantly adapting around.

And then you start to notice patterns...

Notice how your little one never seems to stop itching. The red patches that come and go. The “sensitive skin” label that never quite explains why it’s always worse at night, or after getting dressed. Or maybe it’s you... the unexplained rash, the persistent itch, the flare that appears despite changing your diet, your skincare, your supplements.

Skin is an immune and signalling organ. When it reacts, it’s often responding to something it’s in constant contact with. Laundry detergent is one of the most overlooked triggers because it feels so ordinary, so unavoidable, that it rarely comes under suspicion.

Detergents contain surfactants, preservatives, and optical brighteners designed to cling to fabric. They don’t always rinse clean. Trapped against the skin, these compounds disrupt the skin barrier and alter the skin’s microbiome, increasing inflammation and sensitivity over time. In children, whose skin is thinner and more permeable, this disruption happens faster and with less exposure.

This is how eczema often shows up, not as a sudden problem, but as a chronic conversation between irritated skin and repeated exposure. Creams may soothe the surface, but unless the trigger is removed, the cycle continues. Sometimes the most effective place to start isn’t the medicine cabinet, but the laundry basket.

And notice how children with eczema often also suffer with asthma...

Skin and lungs are both barrier systems, both part of the immune conversation with the outside world. When one is under constant irritation, the other often follows. Fragranced laundry detergent sits right at the centre of this overlap. The same compounds that disrupt the skin barrier are inhaled into the airways. Pyjamas that irritate the skin at night are also off-gassing chemicals into the air a child is breathing for hours.

Now, enough with the fear mongering

None of this is about blame. These chemicals didn’t end up in our homes because we were careless, they ended up there because they were marketed as normal, safe, and even necessary. Most of us never stood a chance to question it.

Luckily, there is one simple change. And you’ll probably be relieved to hear it, because those laundry pods have been quietly racking up costs in the supermarket aisle. 

How to make your own laundry detergent

1. Baking soda & essential oils

Yes, baking soda strikes again. (If you haven’t read our 25 ways to use baking soda article yet, it’s a must. It really might be the most magical, versatile dust you can buy for £1.)

Why it works

Baking soda softens water, neutralises odours, and lifts grime without leaving residue. It cleans without coating your clothes in scent or film.

How to use it

Add around 1/2 a cup of baking soda into the drum with your load. That's it.

If you still want your laundry to smell beautiful (naturally), this is where essential oils shine. Just add 10-15 drops of your favourite essential oils to a small cloth or wool dryer ball and toss it in the drum with the clothes. My personal favourite combination is lavender, peppermint & orange. It smells so good that even my mum, a chronic chemical-cleaning enjoyer, has swapped to it (not a small feat).

2. If you'd rather forage your detergent...

Conkers (horse chestnuts) contain natural saponins, the same soap-like compounds used in commercial detergents.

How to use them

1. Crush or chop them
2. Soak in hot water for a few hours or overnight (or alternatively boil them to speed the process)
3. Strain the liquid and add to the same compartment you'd normally add your detergent (1/2 a cup-a cup depending on your load).

But Gaz Oakley and his wife did a brilliant tutorial here.

While conker season has passed (for now), soap nuts work in the same way and are widely available year-round.

3. But if you’d rather use a pre-made detergent…

Don't be sentenced to the toxic ones. Before purchasing, make sure it aligns with this checklist:

• No synthetic fragrance If the ingredient list says “fragrance” or “parfum”, that’s a red flag. It can hide hundreds of undisclosed chemicals.
• No brighteners These don’t clean, they coat fabrics to appear whiter and can irritate skin.
• No enzymes you can’t pronounce Many commercial enzymes are harsh, petroleum-derived, and unnecessary for everyday washing.
• Free from chlorine, phosphates & dyes These burden waterways, disrupt hormones, and add nothing to actual cleanliness.
• Biodegradable & septic-safe What leaves your washing machine ends up somewhere. Choose products that return gently to the earth.
• Scented only with essential oils (or unscented)

If there’s one thing to take from all of this, let it be this… you don’t need to overhaul your entire life to make meaningful change. And often, choosing the non-toxic option is actually cheaper.

This pattern shows up everywhere, not just in laundry. There’s usually the traditional synthetic choice. Then the glossy, over-marketed “non-toxic” alternative with the eye-watering price tag. And then… quietly sitting in the background… a very simple, very affordable solution.

Usually something our grandparents would recognise. Usually something in a plain bag. Usually something like baking soda.