It's a cycle that feeds itself, and you can't think your way out of it. You have to feed your way out of it.
What cortisol does to your nutrients
Cortisol is your stress hormone. When you're stressed, it spikes. That spike triggers a cascade of metabolic changes designed to give you energy for fight or flight. Your blood glucose rises. Your heart rate increases. Your nervous system fires up.
But sustaining that state requires nutrients. Magnesium is depleted maintaining your neuromuscular system. B vitamins are used in the conversion of glucose to energy and in neurotransmitter synthesis. If you're chronically stressed, you're chronically depleted in these nutrients. The depletion itself makes it harder to manage stress. Stress depletes magnesium. Low magnesium worsens anxiety and tension. Stress makes the problem worse.
Add in the fact that most stressed people skip meals, eat processed food, and sleep badly, and you've got a perfect storm of nutrient depletion. You're running on empty and your body knows it.
The cortisol rhythm matters too. Normally, cortisol peaks in the early morning (that's what wakes you up) and gradually declines through the day, hitting its lowest point around midnight.1 Chronic stress flattens this curve. Your cortisol stays elevated all day and night. Your nervous system never actually switches off. You're perpetually in fight-or-flight mode. No wonder you're exhausted.
You can't meditate your way out of chronic stress if your magnesium is bottomed out. You have to feed the depletion first.
Magnesium and the stress response
Magnesium is responsible for over 300 enzymatic reactions in your body, with the largest concentration in your nervous system.2 When stress hits, magnesium is mobilised to manage the response. It helps your muscles relax. It dampens the amygdala, the fear centre of your brain. It supports GABA production, the calming neurotransmitter. When magnesium is depleted, you stay in a state of hypervigilance. Everything feels threatening. Sleep becomes fractured.
Most people in the modern world are magnesium-deficient. Magnesium is high in leafy greens (which most people don't eat enough of), in nuts and seeds (which most people over-consume in the form of seed oils rather than whole foods), and in mineral-rich water (which is rare in most tap water systems). If you're stressed, you need more magnesium than the average person, and you're likely getting less.
The fastest way to raise magnesium is through food and topical absorption. Leafy green vegetables cooked in broth with butter, pumpkin seeds, almonds, and cacao all provide it. Magnesium baths and sprays are also helpful. Most people experimenting with consistent magnesium intake (food plus topical) notice significant improvements in sleep, anxiety, and tension within two to three weeks.
The source matters. Food magnesium is better absorbed than supplemental forms, but if you're severely depleted, a high-quality magnesium supplement (glycinate is well-absorbed) can accelerate recovery. Magnesium citrate can have a laxative effect, so start low and increase gradually. Aim for around 300 to 400 milligrams daily through food, plus topical magnesium if you're severely depleted.
B vitamins and cortisol
B vitamins are cofactors in literally every metabolic step. When cortisol is chronically high, your B vitamin demand increases dramatically.3 B6 is required for neurotransmitter synthesis and stress hormone metabolism. B12 is required for energy production and nervous system function. Folate is required for DNA synthesis and neurotransmitter production. Pantothenic acid supports adrenal function.
B vitamins are found almost exclusively in animal foods, particularly organ meats. Beef liver is by far the richest source of B vitamins, containing far more than any plant food. If you're stressed and experiencing fatigue, brain fog, or mood changes, B vitamin deficiency is likely contributing. Eat liver weekly, preferably twice weekly. Eggs, red meat, and fish provide them too.
Unlike magnesium, B vitamins are water-soluble and you excrete excess, so supplementation can work if you're severely depleted. But food is better. Liver is non-negotiable if you're under chronic stress.
The B6 to B2 ratio matters too. Stress increases your B6 demand while potentially depleting your stores. A 100-gram serving of beef liver contains about 0.9 milligrams of B6 and 2.6 milligrams of B2. If you're severely stressed, consuming liver twice weekly ensures you're meeting these heightened demands. If supplementing, look for B-complex vitamins that contain all eight B vitamins in balanced ratios.
Blood sugar and cortisol
Cortisol raises blood glucose as part of the stress response.1 If you're chronically stressed, your blood glucose stays elevated. Elevated glucose damages your blood vessels and your nervous system. It also triggers insulin resistance, which further dysregulates your blood sugar. Low blood sugar then triggers more cortisol to bring glucose back up. Another cycle.
The fix is consistent, adequate carbohydrate intake. This sounds counterintuitive if you've been told to cut carbs, but chronically stressed bodies need carbohydrate to signal safety to the nervous system. Whole food carbohydrates like white rice, honey, fruit, and root vegetables signal abundance and safety. Your nervous system downshifts from fight-or-flight.
Pair carbohydrates with protein and fat (rice with butter, fruit with eggs, honey with meat) to stabilise blood glucose. Eat regularly. Don't skip breakfast or lunch. Skipping meals keeps cortisol elevated and your nervous system in a state of perceived scarcity.
The timing matters too. If you're under severe stress, eating a small carbohydrate snack with your breakfast (fruit, honey, white rice) can help reset your cortisol rhythm and signal to your nervous system that the threat is over. The effect is subtle but real over weeks and months of consistent practice.
If you're stressed, you need more magnesium, more B vitamins, and more stable blood sugar. Real food provides all three. Restriction makes it worse.
Breaking the cycle
If you're in a chronically stressed state, you need to interrupt the cycle at every point. Stop the external stressor if you can. But whether or not you can, you must address the nutritional component.
Eat liver twice a week. Add leafy greens cooked in broth with butter daily. Add magnesium-rich foods like pumpkin seeds and almonds. Eat eggs regularly. Eat fish. Stop skipping meals. Eat breakfast even if you're not hungry (appetite signals are disrupted by cortisol). Eat regular carbohydrates with each meal. Add sea salt to your food.
Cut seed oils completely. They drive inflammation, which activates the immune system, which raises cortisol. Cut ultra-processed food. Remove stimulants like excess caffeine. Sleep matters because poor sleep raises cortisol the next day. Rest is not laziness. Rest is medicine.
Expect noticeable improvements in anxiety and sleep within two to three weeks of consistent magnesium intake and nutrient-dense food. Real changes in stress resilience take four to eight weeks. You're rebuilding your stress-buffering capacity, which takes time.
This matters enough to be worth doing consistently. Your nervous system has learned to stay in survival mode. Teaching it that safety is possible requires patience and consistency. Feed it well. Sleep well. Rest well. Over time, your baseline cortisol will lower and your resilience will return.
The bottom line
Chronic stress depletes your nutrients, and nutrient depletion worsens stress. You break the cycle by feeding your depletion. Magnesium, B vitamins, stable blood sugar, consistent calories. These aren't supplements. They're foundational nutrition. Your resilience isn't broken. It's starved. Feed it.
References
- 1. Thau L, Gandhi J, Sharma S. Physiology, Cortisol. StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2023. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK538239/
- 2. National Institutes of Health, Office of Dietary Supplements. Magnesium: Fact Sheet for Health Professionals. https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/Magnesium-HealthProfessional/ [accessed May 2026].
- 3. Kennedy DO. B vitamins and the brain: mechanisms, dose and efficacy—a review. Nutrients. 2016;8(2):68. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4772032/
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This week, eat liver, add magnesium-rich foods, and don't skip meals. Notice what shifts in your sleep and anxiety.


